Control Yourself, Not Your Experiences, Part 2
In the previous post I discussed gaining insight into the thoughts and beliefs that are creating conditions you want to change by imagining your circumstances belong to someone else. Not only is it easier to see Law of Attraction at work in someone else’s life, but you also reduce your resistance to the notion that you created the situation you’re trying to change.
The example used in the previous post follows:
Experience: I never have enough money to pay all my bills.
Imagine this to be someone else’s problem: My friend, George, never has enough money to pay his bills.
Consider the beliefs that might have brought this situation into George’s life:
George possibly believes his working class roots prevent him from experiencing anything other than financial struggle.
George possibly believes he isn’t smart or educated enough to make sufficient money to support his lifestyle.
George possibly believes he needs to spend everything he makes before he even makes it or he will lose the opportunity to spend it.
George possibly believes in scarcity so deeply, he’s afraid if he doesn’t buy everything the instant he thinks of buying it, it will be gone.
These kinds of beliefs are directly opposed to George (or you) experiencing prosperity. So of course, he will experience financial struggle. Work to soften these beliefs. For example, the belief that working class roots prevent one from experiencing anything other than financial struggle might be shifted by focusing on the following thoughts:
A working class person is a person—all persons are created equal and have equal worth as human beings.
Many people from working class roots have become very wealthy. Ari Onassis came from deep poverty to become one of the wealthiest men in the world, for example.
Inheritance is only one way people become wealthy.
Empowering financial tools and information are available to people of all classes as long as they are willing and able to seek such information.
It may take several sessions of conscious work on these beliefs to soften the wall that separates George from experiencing his prosperity, but once the work begins, George (or you) will gain clarity on what is holding him back from his desires. The more you move into the mindspace that allows the possibility of your desires to manifest, the sooner you will experience it.
